I’m not your typical “girly girl.” I don’t like romcoms and Valentine’s Day has always come and gone without much care from me either way. I’ve never been seeking the “one” and don’t believe in marriage… So, what the heck am I doing talking about romance?!
My boyfriend and I just celebrated a year together this month. Neither of us could figure out the exact day we started dating but figured “~ late January” was a safe time to celebrate regardless (yes, even together we’re still that couple).
We went to The Springs Resort in Pagosa Springs, CO and enjoyed a couple of nights right by some of my favorite Hot Springs.
I had fond memories of visiting this hot springs growing up, and even though it’s a bit far away (4+ hours drive) I thought it would be a fun little trip for us. After visiting some of the places Harry enjoyed as a kid this past fall in Wisconsin, it seemed suited that I share a bit of fun from my childhood with him too.
They have indeed changed quite a but since I had been there as a kid, adding a VIP section, the resort accommodations and the spa, but my favorite elements were all still there. A coy pond with a bridge you can walk across, the natural rock pools painted with the various minerals bubbling up through the springs, and the river pools – all still intact and as lovely as I remembered…
Truly, what made the biggest difference was the company though. It was such a lovely experience to be there as an adult with my lover… As much as this experience stuck with me as a kid, I am sure it will be all the more special for me now.
Harry is thoughtful, attentive and sweet. We’re not a perfect couple, but we’re learning each other’s quirks, confronting and adjusting bit by bit… and the man spoils me, which certainly doesn’t hurt my affections for him either.
It was romantic. Despite our quirks and oddities, and as unconventional as we may seek to be, it was all the more romantic for its authenticity…
I got to be me, unapologetically. Even a bit whiny about the cold… even a bit picky about food… even a bit slower than Harry getting ready…
Sure, we’re not the same person and sometimes that makes things difficult or we feel misunderstood – but we are learning… and that I think is the most truly romantic thing I’ve ever experienced in my life.
Thank you Harry, I love you.